Love is so complicated….
If anyone can help me please comment back
So I truly care about this guy I mean I love him, you know the type of love that you think that you would do anything for that person kinda love.( because you never truly know exactly what you are capable of until you are in that situation). Anyways, I don’t know what to do, he is my friend and I care about him a lot , the thing is that he doesn’t know that I still have these feelings for him, We’ve been through some stuff, we were friends, we dated, we disliked each other a lot, and now we are friends again (over a three year period). So anyways I want him to know that I care about him and that I want to be his friend no matter what, but I also want to tell him how I feel. There is another little problem he has a girlfriend. So what do I do? I don’t want to lose him and if I don’t tell him how I feel I know I will , but if I do there is a probability that I will lose him anyways so what do I do??? I know that i love him and i always will because he has had a big impact on me , but i'm also *IN* love with him which makes everything so much more complicated. And if i should tell him does anyone have any advise on how to tell him, what to say,...
Oh and i forgot to mention that when i get near him i go blank and forget about everything.
Love is so complicated….
By Cinthia_a_v - Posted on May 21st, 2008
Tagged: True Love
I will not comment on how you feel about him, how much you love him, or what you are willing to do for him. I can, however, suggest something toward expressing your feelings to him.
First of all, do NOT diss his girlfriend. While you read that now and you think that's a "duh" of a thing, you should be careful not the blurt it out under the pressure of talking to him.
Second of all, let him know you understand that he is involved. Make it clear that you are not expressing your feelings to cause trouble, but to make it easier for yourself that he knows how you feel. Let him understand that he will not have to choose between you and his girlfriend, because you will always be at least his friend and be there for him should he need you. But keep in mind not to go letting yourself be used as a tool.
Third of all... kinda scandalous, but make sure you pretty up before you talk to him about this. Of course, make sure that you are not over-doing it. If you are not good with the field of dressing up, seek for a friend's help. Next, make sure you are comfortable with how you appear. Sometimes us guys need these artificial skin-tone adjusters to knock some sense into us. This will let him know that even though you are his friend, you can also be his lover...
Last and most important, make sure you do not allow yourself to be used or get hurt. If you hurt because he chooses to remain with his girlfriend, fine, but do not allow yourself to be hurt by him continually.
Best of luck to you.
Tell him how you feel. If you love him as much as you say you do, this should be a no-brainer. Just tell him everything that's on your heart.
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