Right now, my mother is really getting on my nerves because I sent her a note asking her if she could end my punishment of riding the bus to see my friends because I asked my father for bus money; then the afternoon of the same day, she didn't say anything about the note. So the day after the next day, I sent her an e-mail at work asking her if she read the note; then she e-mailed me back saying that we would discuss it after she would get home from work. But, it turned out that we never discussed it because she was too busy talking to my oldest sister on the phone; then after she had dinner, she got tired and went to bed early. Then today, I sent her an e-mail saying that we forgot to discuss if she is going to take this punishment away or not and she never e-mailed me back; furthermore this evening, she didn't say anything about the e-mail and we still didn't discuss if she was going to take this punishment away. You know, I really think that the reason why we haven't discuss if she's going to take the punishment away or not is because she's avoiding the subject because she grew attached to this punishment and doesn't want to let it go; even though, I've been good to her. Therefore, I'm really getting tempted to turn into a b**** because she's obviously acting like a lazy b****; also, I'm sorry that I'm like this, but this punishment has been going on too long because this punishment started in April and I miss my friends. So, I'm really getting tempted to write her another note explaining to her why she should take this punishment away, but I don't know how to do it without sounding b*****. So, can someone please tell me how to tell her without sounding mean? Thank you, very much!
My Mother is getting on my Nerves.
By Guest - Posted on July 13th, 2006















I do not mean to offend, but what does this have to do with news and politics? I would consider news and politics to be events that affect many people, not just a few people. I mean, you complain of not being able to see your friends while others abroad are watching their friends die from bombs and rockets. That's news and politics.
Hey, I don't mean to offend you but it seems like your mother is controlling. She has a communication problem. This seems like a very petty issue for your mother to keep you on punishment since . . .April? The first thing I would do is talk to the father. Ask him to put his imput in and talk to your mother because he's the man of the house (if you live with your father) and you are his child, too. One way you can affect your dad is always asking him to pick you up some newspapers, magazines, DVDs, etc. do this all the time. Emphasize that you don't have anything better to do. After reading the articles make him sit down with you every night and talk about the various issues, act real upset about how the world is and act like your depressed over it. This way he gets annoyed enough to talk to your mother. The whole goal is to annoy the hell out of the other parent who knows how to communicate. If your dad doesn't live with you make sure you call him and other family members, even the ones that live out of state, everyday and just talk about any and everything that way you are tying up the phone from your mother and she can't complain because your talking to family.
Hopefully your mother doesn't make all the decisions for everyones life in that house. But if she is the type that overrides your father I would just weigh it out and act like it doesn't bother me. When I use to be on punishment when I asked my father if I could go outside, if he said no, I would just start crying. After a while I caught on to why he kept saying no, so when I would ask him again, if he said no, I would shrugg my shoulders right in front of him and say 'oh well.' Obviously she wants to see you suffer, so act like you don't give a fuck! Even if your mad, just walk around the house like you don't have a care in the world. She'll get the message . .. besides what kind of punishment can a parent give if they notice the child doesn't care?
Also, how old are you? Why are you still being put on punishment? And if your of age get a job far enough from home and complete as much overtime hours as possible and tell your friends to meet you at your job after work to walk you home. That way your away from your mother and closer to your friends.
Now, if your father doesn't live with you I would confide in a Pastor, minister (if you have a church family) or someone close to your mother to be a mediator at a family meeting. Let this person know everything that is going on. Sometimes it takes an adult to show another adult how childish they are being. Remember you are her child under her rules and if this doesn't work you are going to have to roll with the punches.
Thats the best I could come up with considering the fact that I haven't been on punishment since the 6th grade.
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