Now entering the land of hate

rememberpeace's picture

Racism, it happens everywhere, in classrooms, dining room tables, board meetings and even out of the mouths of babes. It’s as prominent in this country as it was fifty years ago yet most people would like to say it’s not that bad. No one is being lynched; no one is being beaten; all that are said are words. We are taught “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” yet we obviously underestimate the power of words and language. Words resonate in soul tainting us forever but what does that even mean. When someone is beaten, they remember the pain yet after a while they can no longer feel it. They heal themselves and once again they are able to be walk yet how do you hold your head up high when someone follows you around for a year calling you a terrorist.
Maybe this is my personal vendetta against racism but I feel like minorities should stand against the majority telling them they are worthless. I’m not saying go out and punch everyone in the face who has done you wrong; you should just assert yourself. It was a right after 9/11 and everywhere I turned people were calling me a sandnigger or a terrorist. I had to sit through Arab joke after Arab joke. I had to wake up each morning to seeing that my house was vandalized. Each one felt like another knife hitting my back and then twisting. So I stopped talking. I stopped being proud of my heritage. It took me six years to be proud of who I am. I didn’t cause 9/11 and I don’t celebrate what those animals that did that to a city I love, and to those dear families in my town that lost their fathers. I see the pain in their faces and I see what hate can do.
Hate and racism go hand and hand, yet if you could only choose one to deal with it would have to be racism. I understand people have good reasons to hate a handful of people but a whole race, it just doesn’t make sense. Talk to people before you decide they aren’t worth your time. Those who use race, language, and color as a marker on whom they can talk to are truly missing out on life. If I hated every Jewish person I met then I wouldn’t be friends with some of the most amazing people I have ever met. That doesn’t mean I don’t dislike someone who is Jewish and has truly hurt me or my family with a fiery passion from the depths of my soul, it just means that I have an actual reason to not like them because of something they have done. These reasons, however, shall never include breathing the same air as me, sitting in my seat in class or standing in the same room as me because these reasons are petty and have no backing.
So have a talk with your family. Tell them the importance of embracing others because you never know when someone you hate because of where they come from might save your life. It’s about time for America to wake up to this growing epidemic because although the signs may not be clearly seen the words are surely ringing. Learn to love. Learn to grow. Learn to live in harmony.

LL_'s picture

Yea i get what youre saying. It would be great if racism, sexism, the end of homophobia, and well damn...peace to the whole world would take affect, but we all know its not going to happen. Ignorance is dominant, and we are continuing to enable it.

Another thing, you sound like you have some of your own hate issues to deal with with that whole "from the depths of my soul fiery passion" stuff... just because you hate someone for more personal reasons, instead of race doesnt make it correct.

"Prefiero morir parada que vivir la vida en mis rodillas"

rememberpeace's picture

I understand that you may think that there will never be an end to such things as racism but it's that negative undertone that stops such a movement from occuring. I am just saying that people need to be more careful when they speak because no deserves to be torn down everytime they step outside of a classroom.

The whole thing about thinking that I have some hate issues, I don't hate. I think it taints your very being and it means that you will never be able to like that person and would even be willing to do them harm. I feel as though to dislike some there is still room for them to come back into your life in a positive fashion. Hate and dislike are two completely different things and believe me when I tell you that I have never felt hate before so it is why I don't understand it. Yet I can completely understand if someone killed a family member of yours and you said you hated them.

LL_'s picture

in your understanding of what i was saying to you. People think that its attitude that keeps things like hate going...and thats partially true, for those who are racists, and sexists, and so on...but for those of us who arent, it isnt a negative undertone, its just reality. How is my outlook keeping something going, when im not involved in it? I'm a member of a few minorities so dont think that ive never seen what you have. I dont excuse hate in any situation, but i can understand the feeling. I think that its something that someone should be allowed to feel but after awhile... you should try to grow past it. That doesnt include hate to someone that you dont know, and hate because of religion, race, sexual orientation, but for other more personal and profound reasons.

"Prefiero morir parada que vivir la vida en mis rodillas"

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