I have been involved with this guy for over 2 years. When we first starting dating, he had a baby girl already. A "crazy baby mama" comes with this daughter. He loves his baby girl with all his heart and would give up his life for his baby. He was living with this girl for a while after she had the baby because she wouldn't allow him to see his baby unless he was "with" her. After her cheating on him and fighting ALL the time, he moved out and him and I started dating. I fell inlove with him and we were living together for a summer until I went back to college. I still saw him every weekend and our relationship was still stronger than ever. March of 2007, we broke up because he wasn't seeing his daughter enough. He wanted to be her "full-time daddy" and doing that meant moving back in with the baby mama. She has threatened to talk his baby away and he really can't do a lot about it because he's technically not a legal citizen. We didnt talk for months and now she is pregnant again. I started talking to him again because I have never stopped loving him. He says that I'm the one he wants to be with and he has no feelings left and no love for this other woman anymore. The only reason he is living with her is for his daughter and the new baby coming in December. We see each other all the time and still talk in secret b/c this bitch would kill me (literally) if she found out we were talking. He says time is what we need. He wants to wait until his girls our a little more grown up until him and I can really be together.. is this all bull shit?? What should I do? I am madly inlove with this man and can't see myself with anyone else...
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wow. This is defanitly a hard siuation, no matter how you look at it. Personally, i would wait until the guy you love is a citizen and then go from there. As for this psycho b***h, you can't do too much because some people are like that, but you should just try to ignore her, cuz by the looks of it, she only wants attention, which is why she is doing this whole thing. As hard as this may seem, you two will have an unbreakable bond if you make it through it.
Its gonna take a long time for this guy to become legal. I'll always have to wait no matter what I'm waiting for. If he waits til his kids are old enough.. wow, that wont be for like 5 or 6 more years, maybe more. I just do what my heart tells me and thats try to be with him as best as possible... Thanks for the advice..