I have been shy for many years. I don't talk to people unless they go up to me first, so for my General Ed requirements, I took a Psychology class (to help me me out) The teacher up front said that everything we said, would stay there. And day by day I became more comfortable. We talked about many topics, and like always, he said everything we said would stay in class. I as never mean to anyone, and I was just shy.
One day we learned that past experiences shaped who we were now, so the teacher asked us to say how our childhood had been. I said that I was very shy, and then he linked it to that my parents had not always been there for me (they had been there for me about 80% of the time, since they worked)
So now the class is about to end, and I find out that 2 of the girls from my class, had told my sibling (that went to the same college) They told him that I SAID (which I didn't) That my parents had abandoned me for all of my childhood. He told my parents, and they yelled at me, for saying such things. I am sickned by the acts of these 2 girls. Who in the heck do they think they are? Getting in my bussines and telling my sibiling out of the blue about this. I thought it was a safe environment. What angers me more is that those 2 want to become psychologists, if they can't shut up about me, what about their patients? I am sad and angry because they ruined my life. My parents are angry at me, and just because these 2 thought that they should say something about it. What to do now?
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Honestly? What does it matter what those girls said? You don't even like them. And the real world, sadly enough, is full of bad, unqualified people. You may not be able to terminate them, but you could change your attitudes and make the world a happier place--to yourself, at least.
It does matter what they said, because they told sibling and he told my parents and I got in trouble for their lies. I don't care if they tell other people, but when it affects me directly, I care
Maybe you should tell your parents that your brother has been misinformed--which is the truth. Who are they going to believe, a random gossip or their own daughter?
That's what I said. But my brother likes to make plain things into huge events, and blows stuff out of propotion, I'll talk to my parents again and explain to them more slowly
go for it. and good luck. and screw twatts like those girls. hypocrisy sucks.
Thanks, I'll try that