I CAN'T BE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE

BELLEZADEAMOR1's picture

I AM NOT MEANT TO BE EVRY BODY'S CUP OF TEA COFFE OR ANYTHING THEY WANT ME TO BE. I REFUSE TO BE CLOSED INTO WHAT EVRYONE ELSE DOES! I DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO PROVE; I AM JUST ME LIKE IT OR NOT. JUST BECAUSE THAT'S THEY WAY IT'S DONE BY OTHERS WHY SHOULD I CARE. I DO WHAT FITS ME AND MY PERSONALITY. I AM TIRED OF SEEING PEOPLE TRY AND FIT IN AND TRY TO MAKE THE PEOPLE THAT DON'T FIT THEIR OUTLINE FEEL SMALL, UNEDUCATED, AND JUDGED VERY HARSHLY. SOME PEOPLE CAN TRY AND SAY SOMETHING OR JUST SAY IT. I WANT ALL OF MY HATERS TO STAY ON THEIR JOB. AT FIRST I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE ALWAYS HATIN, BUT THEN I LOOKED AT THE ROOT WORD THAT SAYS HATE SO THERE JOB IS TO DO THAT "HATE" ON ANYONE DOING SOMETHING THAT MIGHT NOT AGREE WITH THERE NORMAL WAY OF DOING THINGS. MANY PEOPLE SEE IT AS BEING A REBEL, BUT NOT AT ALL. EVERYONE FEELS LIKE THEY HAVE AN IDEA ON HOW SOMEONE SHOULD ACT. FOR EXAMPLE, MEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO CRY, BUT WHO SAYS THAT THE MEDIA. SO IF A MAN CAME OUT AND STARTED CRYING HE WOULD BE CALLED A PUNK, PUSSY OR WUSS. SO WHAT WOULD U CALL SOMEONE THAT FEELS LIKE EVERYONE THAT TRY TO FIT INTO WHAT EVERYONE ELSE WANTS THEM TO BE SHOULD TIE A CHAIN AROUND THEIR NECK AND BE A DOG. YOU'LL LEARN A FEW NEW TRICK THAT EVERY DOG KNOWS. BE LIKE UR SELF NOT THE PLAYDOH MOLD THAT HAS BEEN DECIDED FOR U. YES WE ARE PRODUCTS OF OUR PARENTS BUT WE ARE NOT OUR PARENTS WE MIGHT HANG AROUND CERTIAN GIRLS BUT NOT ACTUALLY BE LIKE THEM. SO WHAT DOES THIS SAY FOR SOCIETY ARE WE OKAY WITH EVERYONE ACTIN LIKE WE TELL THEM BECAUSE IN THAT CASE THE FIRST TN AMENDMENTS ARE NOT NECESSARY. YES THERE ARE RULES BUT MOST OF THE TIME RULES ARE MEANT TO BE BROKEN ( UNLESS 4 SAFETY) IF EVERYONE DIDN'T ADVENTURE OUT TO SEE WHAT IF THEN AMERICA WOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN DISCOVERED. SO THE NEXT TIME PEOPLE ONLY HAVE NEGATIVE TO SAY THEN SAY THANKS FOR BEING MY NEW HATER!! ( SOME OF YA'LL MIGHT NEED GLASSES) I WOULD LUV TO WIN THIS SCHOLARSHIP BUT NOT AT THE RISK OF LOOSING ME! 

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asmaw's picture

firmly believe in and that you have to write in caps, and not conform

but i do have to say that the only reason i have a problem with the caps is because my eyes----- i have contacts because my eye sight is....well lets say if i take them out i will probably trip and fall every step of the way. and then my eyes get so strained and blurry and glazy but i want to, I WANT to read your blogs but i can't read the constant caps so if you continue then...i don't know, my eyes are gonna worsen.

"Pride is concerned with who is right. Humility is concerned with what is right."

blairthebarbie's picture

Alright, I don't think that gender-roles or any other stereotypes are always great...
However, I sometimes wonder if some roles we are given are for the better. (Not all, just some) Like people assume that what our parents say is for our general health, therefore, we follow their rules. Sometimes, if we didn't follow these rules we'd be putting ourselves at risk. Take for example; a girl's mom doesn't want her to go out with some stranger she barely knows, the girl may think it is unfair, but the mother only has her daughter's best interest at heart.

Yet, I do also get that sometimes these roles aren't quite as effective. You be yourself, though! That's a good thing.
Blair-O

downheartedpink's picture

i agree with you, but it was kinda hard to read because of the caps. You have a good message, but it is kinda distracting with the caps and the way you say some things. good for you for sticking up for what you think.

JuliaP's picture

Yeah. I didn't even bother to read it. Still haven't and probably won't because the CAPS is irritating to read. Especially are 11:50 pm when my eyes are tired.

BELLEZADEAMOR1's picture

YOU SHOULD GO TO SLEEP THEN DON'T READ IT I AIN'T CRYIN WELL THANKS LUV YA BE BLESSED AND LIKE THE TITLE HATERS ARE MY MOTIVATION BESTA ADAPT***^COURTESY OF CORTESIA***^

JuliaP's picture

Yeah, I know. But there are always bew blogs and I end up losing sleep trying to catch all of them. I should actually be getting ready for school right now.

BELLEZADEAMOR1's picture

SO IT'S UR OWN FAULT DON'T TRY AND PLACE BLAME ON OTHERS BUT U MORE THAN LIKELY AIN'T USE TO THE REAL WORLD; WHATEVA U DO IS ON U, U MESS U UR OWN FAULT NO ONE ELSES. I AM NOT TRYING TO BE AROGANT OR SHOW OFF BECAUSE I HAVE NOTHING TO SHOW OFF I JUST WRITE WHAT I FEEL. I CHOOSE MY BATTLES AND THIS AIN'T ONE. I'M JUST VENTING AND GETTING FEED BACK, BUT NEGATIVE OR DEROGATORY COMMENTS WITH NO BACKING ARE NOT ACCEPTED. AGAIN I STILL LOVE U BE BLESSED AND KEEP MOTIVATING ME. ***^COURTESY OF CORTESIA***^

JuliaP's picture

Whoa! You need to chill out and not be so defensive. I simply gave you some advice to not write in all CAPS, but if it helps you communicate your feelings, go for it. And how on earth did I give you negative or derogatory comments? I guess you don't take advice very well, because you just said it wasn't your "battle". Honey, I got a lot more things to deal with than you.

BELLEZADEAMOR1's picture

WHATEVER U FEEL I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS I DON'T CARE IF U GIVE ADVICE BUT WHEN U MENTION THINGS ABOUT NOT READING MY BLOGS AND I COULD CARE LESS UR LOSS BE BLESSED AND THANKS IT'S NOT A FORM OF COMMUNICATION IT ALLOWS ME TO SEE BETTER . DEAL WITH UR STUFF GLAD YOU TOOK THE TIME TO COMMENT (SMILE, SMILE)***^COURTESY OF CORTESIA***^

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