what do u think of when talk about sex?
nowadays, it becomes more difficult to b a gyneocologist. it is because u need to ask the patient whether she is sexually active or not, even she is not married, which is not a practice in olden days.
if u happened to ask someone who is a virgin, she will think that u r insulting her, if u happened to ask someone who has had premarital sex, she might not tell the whole story.. difficult har? (mayb most of u from the western countries cannot understand this circumstance.)
come back to the topic, do u think premarital sex is acceptable? why?
practically, sexual act is only legal in legally married couples, and only between that couple. but now, many people think that having sex with girlfriend or boyfriend is part of the normal activity in a relationship, which is actually abnormal.
mayb 10 to 20 years ago, when they talk about sexual intercourse, they will not use the term "having sex" but they will use "making love". they use the term "make love" becuase they still think that having sexual intercourse hav a connection with love, at least with somebody u really love (exclude those who go to commercial sex workers, this will b another topic...) but now, people are using the term "hav sex" and the incidence of one-night-stand has been increasing, because they think that sexual intercourse has nothing to do with relationship. they dun care about responsiblity after having sex, they only know on that spot they are having fun.
anyway, do u think human is differ from animal? i think we are differ from animals because we can think rationally. simply hav sex with anyone is not consider a rational action, isn't it?
p/s: if i m insulting anyone here, plz accept my apologise for insulting ur feelings...
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I don't necessarily think its right to have one-night stands and all, but I don't think its animalistic. Those people choose to do that and i think its usually a rational action if protection is involved. I think premarital sex is fine as long as you know what your getting into and you have a serious relationship with that person because sex leads (usually) to an emotional attachment.
I don't at all think that being a gynecologist has become more difficult because of the uncomfortable questions they are required to ask. Anyone that walks into a gyno's office must know that she is going to be asked about sex and all sorts of other things that one doesn't normally talk about to strangers. If anything, being a gynecologist has become more difficult because of the exorbitant prices of malpractice insurance thanks to frivolous lawsuits. And I suppose it's difficult because people walk into a gyno's office expecting the doctor to be able to help them with whatever they need help with if they are less than completely honest.
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"practically, sexual act is only legal in legally married couples, and only between that couple."
I don't know where you live, but in my state the age of consent is 16 years old. once you pass that age you can have sex with anyone you please with or without parental consent.
secondly, this argument is highly based on religion, which (unfortunately or fortunately, depending upon where you stand) is not a valid argument.
no monotheistic religion condones premarital sex.
"they use the term "make love" becuase they still think that having sexual intercourse hav a connection with love, at least with somebody u really love (exclude those who go to commercial sex workers, this will b another topic...) but now, people are using the term "hav sex" and the incidence of one-night-stand has been increasing, because they think that sexual intercourse has nothing to do with relationship."
first of all, this is a run-on sentence. secondly, please check your spelling and write full words. Don't insult your own intelligence.
Secondly, where are you getting your statistics? I agree that promiscuity is increasing, but I highly doubt the majority of sexually active individuals believe that having sex is merely a physical act.
As for me, religion aside, I believe that premarital sex is a choice solely for you to make. It should be based on your own beliefs, relationships, and health, and should not be shaped or pressured by those around you.
In case you didn't notice, the author of the post is not from the U.S. and it doesn't sound like English is their first language. They aren't misspelling because they aren't trying or because they are stupid.
Common sense is as rare as genius. ~Emerson
Sexual relations within unmarried couples are VERY common. It IS a normal activity. Wtf are you talking about?
I have sex with my boyfriend - or you could say I make love to him. I love him and do it as an act of love. Our being married or not is irrelevant.
And if I was to have sex for fun - so what? Sex is also an act of pleasure.
thank you for all the comments given.
"Accept the comments from others althought they might think differently from you, from where you might gained your knowledge but do not need to agree with them."
p/s: very good suggestion, i will use proper spelling in future, thank you!
tonnii :)