The use of the word "disabled"

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Okay, first, before we go on, let me say this:

After I posted my last blog post (so recently it's kind of embarrassing, I'm doing the Scholarship aspect of this, being on Supplemental Security Income, whose very name is a joke, so you guys will see me quite a bit in my quest to create domestic insurrection and hopefully get some money for it) Progressive U showed me a similar (and very good) blog post on the use use of the word "disabled" to describe people with disability. This poster said she felt that "disabled" was the wrong word to use, and in some ways, I fully agree. However, the objection to the word "disabled" that people have stems both from an important rejection of the medical model of disability (discussed in my last post)
and an incomplete view of the Social Model of Disability. I am very, very happy there are
people who see disability discrimination and it thrills me, because the generation reading this blog can do tremendous things to end it, but, paradoxically, I worry about our
reluctance to use the word "disabled."
How can this be, right? Didn't I just get through saying the medical model was pretty bad?

Well, yes, but if we truly see disability as a Social issue, the periodic use of the word "disabled" really should stop bothering us. I mean, if we see parallels between racism and ableism (discrimination against people with disabilities on the basis of their
disabilities) then this gets easier. We don't look at a black person and call them "a person with blackness" or a Mexican person and call them "a person with Mexicanness," right? And why? Because a person's skin color and racial identity is rightfully not considered a weakness, but a strength and a form of (*drum roll, please*) DIVERSITY.
So, while there are differences (as the poster I read says, -dis means "lack" and "apart from") I honestly am quite frustrated when other people with disabilities tell me "disabled" is the wrong word to use to describe myself while simultaneously saying disability is diversity. Often, I alterate between "disabled" and "people with disabilities" but honestly, disabled is ok with me.
I don't see it as weakness, and while there's probably a better word, the many words I grew up with in the early 80's (Handicapable, differently-abled and the like) just are not it at all. The disability community is still defining itself, and, as one of the last great Social movements, the disability movement is a continuing one. The issue of language is a
huge one, and rightfully so, but for now, all I ask is that when you, enlightened people all, see me use the word disabled, don't comment that it means I've bought into subjugation, because that, my friends, is a subject for later.

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Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

I guess I just never have understood what the big deal is. I think we have started to spend too much time on what we want to call things instead of focusing on our actions and what we can do to act as if everyone is equal. Don't talk about it, be about it.

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Thanks, Leslie. I was just looking at your blog and you seem pretty cool. Nice to meet you. I agree that we should "be about it" and I think I'll fit right in to this community. I'll check out the post that you linked to, and thanks!

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Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

I often struggle with the use of the words disabled and disability, as I do believe that a person's medical conditions should not define them. On the other hand, it is important that the disability does not become something unmentionable, as it IS an important difference to recognize. If we start pretending that everyone is equally able to do all the same things the same way. The ADA is in place to make sure accommodation is made for those who need it. It is not possible to say "Americans with [place your individual medical condition here] Act, so 'disability' ends up being the word everyone gets lumped into.

I totally agree with Leslie that our actions are way more important than semantics, but as an Englishy-type person, I tend to get hung up on semantics.

Interesting series, BTW.

http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/ediblewoman

Yeah, I know what you mean, ediblewoman. I'm Englishy, too, so I understand fully. And I've been checking out your blog even before you posted this and I think it's really great. I'll be continuing to read!

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Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

I just noticed that there is a half-completed thought in my initial comment! And now I can't edit it! It will haunt me...
:-!!

http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/ediblewoman

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